December 5 – Let Go.
What (or whom) did you let go of this year? Why?
(Author: Alice Bradley)
My family: They are so hard on themselves and choose the toughest options! I Lovingly ("ahem") call them the Springer Show. They crazy! And not always in the Oh those crazy so-and-so's hahah crazy way, but for real dysfunctional harmful ways, but it is what it is.
It's tough when the people you love refuse to step out of harms way even when you offer solutions and help and time and tears and stuff. So what's left to do? let it go. Even when they ask, let it go. Even when they cal crying, let it go. Even when things get worse, and they always do...let.it.go.
Sam's advice: Couple of things today:
What (or whom) did you let go of this year? Why?
(Author: Alice Bradley)
My family: They are so hard on themselves and choose the toughest options! I Lovingly ("ahem") call them the Springer Show. They crazy! And not always in the Oh those crazy so-and-so's hahah crazy way, but for real dysfunctional harmful ways, but it is what it is.
It's tough when the people you love refuse to step out of harms way even when you offer solutions and help and time and tears and stuff. So what's left to do? let it go. Even when they ask, let it go. Even when they cal crying, let it go. Even when things get worse, and they always do...let.it.go.
Sam's advice: Couple of things today:
- Adult people are pretty much just as happy or miserable as they decide to be!
- You cannot help someone who wont help themselves.
- You can never tell anyone anything about their life then they haven't already told themselves when they lay down at night and the mind races with their realities.
- When you ask...LISTEN!
- Listen is defined as trying the damn adivse you have asked
- OR DON'T ASK! You just upset people.
- Caveat: ask anyway - never give up.
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